Thursday, 12 February 2009
Let's drop the topic... NOT!Y
You know, when someone is not feeling happy about a certain incident or act or whatsoever and chooses not to bring out the unhappiness in himself/herself, it kinds of bring me to a conclusion that the person has given up the relationship (be it friendship, kinship or BGR) and found it pointless to clarify things.
I don't see why one cannot be open about one's thoughts so that since it doesn't make one very please, it will not happen again!
Yes, I do agree that any party should continue to dwell on the topic, but it absolutely irks me because there is no solution to this problem and without a solution which can be easily obtained only if the person is willing to unfold the hidden emotions, nothing, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING of the same situation can be resolved! In other words, the same situation will most likely happen again.
Think about it, this unhappiness doesn't only affect the person alone, it affects people around the person. So if it is not something pleasant, why not we just prevent it from occurring again?!
What is so difficult about it? Unless friends/family members/partner(s) are people who are not understanding... that, I would see as you have totally no faith in me as a friend/member of the family/significant other.
Wait a minute, those groups of people should be classified as "loved ones", shouldn't they? However, from how things seems to be, the "loved ones" will gradually drift to become "loved, once".
People, it's fine to speak your heart out. Trust me, it will make you feel a lot better than what you thought. Even if a teenie weenie incident can blare into a volcanic commosion, so be it; at least eventually, there'll be an effective conclusion (effective in the sense that it not only enhances the relationship between the parties, it also allows each party to have a better understanding of the other(s) ).